An ARM Mac would run MacOS, so the software platforms would still be separate. But running Windows with acceptable performance wouldn’t be possible afaik, since ARM wouldn’t be fast enough to emulate x64 without a significant performance hit. Lots of cores are great for certain workloads, but for most applications single-thread ips is key.
re: an AppleTV with A13X, there have been rumors of a AppleTV refresh, but no rumors of A13X. iPad Pro looks to be coming out next fall, so it’ll likely have A14X. So no A13X, just as there was no A11X.
Running Windows is key here, an ARM Mac could not, as you say, run windows. I wouldn't like to confuse matters with some Macs incapable of running Windows natively or (worse) with poor performance compared to 'proper' Windows.
Instead, rather than trying to compete on a different platform, I could see Apple developing iPad OS further with some new hardware products.
We're not far away from seeing iPad Pros crossing into MacBook territory in terms of performance. I'd like to see if Apple introduce an iPad Pro set up like a laptop rather than a compromised third party solution that relies on people purchasing a keyboard case and using bluetooth connectivity for keyboards.
What if Apple wanted to try a 2-in-1 iPad with a scissor keyboard and USB-C port(s)?
The MacBook is already off sale, so there could seriously be a gap in the $899-$999 area where an ultraportable 'laptop' running iOS apps with a touch screen could be interesting.
iPad Pros have not always come out in October - there have been introductions at WWDC and in March. The last 'Pro' refresh was October 2018 but there have been consumer refreshes in March and September 2018.
I could see demand for cpus for iPhone hottest in Q4 and Q1 - so introducing 'pro' devices in Q2 and Q3 spreads the demand around the year and looks healthier for the balance sheet.
In this case though, such a device would clearly be a candidate for an October release (and perhaps therefore an A14X) not least because of the fact that the next version of iPad OS would be needed for the initial release.
Of course, this has clearly gone off topic so to bring it back on topic the same would apply to Mac mini. I think it'll stay Intel.
If Apple are thinking of introducing an ARM powered box it's clearly got to be an AppleTV - and one with a lot of horsepower under the hood. I honestly can't see why Apple would want to allow people to hack up an ARM powered box though. That's a job for an (intel) Mac mini.