why not just move to a state that supports your alternative lifestyle. You're a prime example of not wanting to change things but to force people to accept your lifestyle. I'm sure you'll disagree and that's just fine with me.
Let me provide a perfect example. I was working for a company and i was moved to another location that needed a strong manager. The problem was the location was in the ghetto and being white i was not welcomed there at all. My life was threatened within the first few hours for being somewhere i didn't belong. So i updated my resume and found a better job at a different company in a few weeks.
lol