Everything costs. I prefer my own, sober, company, thanks.
So your saying that faster transit, in a more comfy seat, that is safer and provides affordable transit to everyone.
Is bad?
Everything costs. I prefer my own, sober, company, thanks.
It won't - there are two generations ready to carry on, and pass it down the line. As long as humans continue to be born without a fleece on their back, there will be independently-minded people.
So your saying that faster transit, in a more comfy seat, that is safer and provides affordable transit to everyone.
Is bad?
Since when have people been born with a fleece on their backs? I thought people came out of the womb wearing no clothes. Did I miss something in science class?
No - for those who wish to use it.
Not very good with analogy, are you?
You think bus stops build, operate and maintain themselves for free? Really, do you actually think that?
So inversely, public transportation is bad for those who do not wish to use it?
I'm quite good at analogies and abstract thinking. These allow me to be able to look forward and try to progress in life, not regress and yearn for the days when rooms were lit by candlelight.
However, I was also quite good in the sciences and I would still like to know if I missed something in my biology and human anatomy courses where they talked about humans being born with a fleece on their backs.
Yet another reason why I loathe public transport.
Yes, if forced to pay for it anyway.
Sheeple.
Please define "financially stable enough to afford having children".
And by reading what he wrote, define what happened as a choice.
So nice wine is bad? Seriously?
The only sheeple I see are those who blindly follow what they hear from the likes of Faux and Drudge and want to live in a world where there's no electricity.
Oh, the irony!
Pretty simple, really. Having either personal financial means to underwrite his own medical costs, or being financially viable enough to pay for his own, private insurance to cover the costs of childbirth, new child care, and pre and post natal care for the mother. Having children is not an inalienable right...
Since you want to insinuate yourself in a conversation between the two of us, I believe it would be incumbent upon you to find the specific post in which he clearly said that having the child was a matter of choice, even though he did not have a means of paying for it at the time that did not involve a government entitlement program. Do your own research.
You want to talk irony, here's a video of the kind of person I think of when I hear "rugged individual". This guy probably is probably a conservative/Libertarian/Republican in terms of politics and is all about doing it all by himself.
I just love the eloquence when he speaks, "Git! Git!"
If you want to live in the middle ages like a couple other oldies in the forum, that's up to you. Some of us want to look forward and live in a world full of idealism and progress. I believe people can change but change takes a lot of work. Many like myself will continue to fight the good fight because if you're not a part of the solution, you're part of the problem.
Luckily, I'm not old like you and that other guy. I'm a young liberal so that means that I have a brain right?
These days, it's conservatives that don't have a brain.
If that's how you think then I'm glad that you're old and your antiquated ideas will soon die with you.
Getting a little tired of your ageism and personal attacks on members of this forum.
Slow it up.
Ahhh, so simple, and exactly the response I expected. I am not supporting his apparent decision to have children early or to not be able to afford or to not have insurance for whatever reason. That is on him. And as for your accusation of "insinuating" myself into your conversation, have it in a PM and not on a public board if you don't want any comments made.
That being said, there is no "I can afford to have children" unless you are extremely wealthy. If you will re-read his post, the child would have died in the birth canal, and the wife died likely as well. Even if he had personal insurance, this could have likely set him back thousands or more out of pocket that were not expected.
Also, you can only predict costs to a point. I could afford to have children with no problem. Complications from his birth, however, made quite an unexpected dent. Even though we had full insurance, we got stuck with many thousands of dollars of unexpected costs. We have also recently found out our child has special needs. Insurance only covers so much. Some of the recommended therapies cost more than the top 5% make in a year, and are only partially covered by insurance. And you better believe that we have applied to government programs that help special needs kids where insurance doesn't (of course, I pay my share in taxes). Even with that, we will still pay many thousands per year, which I am working out. But, I guess in your peachy world, I should have fully planned for any and every scenario that could possibly happen before having children.
Not everything is as cut-and-dry as so many conservatives like to believe.
Anyway, this is way off topic.
I can't do anything about biology, sorry.
None of your long diatribe was to the point. It's not a matter of being wealthy. Way to take a simple truth and bend it to fit your needs. Just like a liberal...
I can't do anything about biology, sorry.
None of your long diatribe was to the point. It's not a matter of being wealthy. Way to take a simple truth and bend it to fit your needs. Just like a liberal...
The simple fact is he chose to have a baby when he didn't have the means to pay for it himself, or his own private insurance to cover expenses. Instead, he chose to rely on a government program to cover his expenses, thereby shifting the cost of WANTING to have a child onto other taxpayers. It is, as cut and dry as that, indeed.
And, just like a conservative, you ignored every other point I made because it doesn't fit your tunnel-vision world view. You still haven't pointed out how some things can come up which don't fit into the "afford to have a child" talking point. His singular story might be one thing, but there are plenty of variables to "having a child".
Are you going to disparage me for using a government program for special needs children because my insurance, which is an upper-level policy I pay a metric ass-ton for, will only cover some of it? Was it my choice to have a special needs child? Should I have not had children because of the simple possibility that at some point down the road there could be massive medical bills I could maybe not afford for said child? At what point can you "afford to have a child" on paper?
Again, I am not supporting this guy. I don't think anyone without insurance should have children. But you can't just say "you need to be able to afford children". Because that is a cut-and-dry statement that doesn't apply in many situations. It would be so much better if we just didn't have to deal with all this crap like every other industrialized nation on earth.
Again off topic...
Just like a liberal.... blah blah blah, quack quack quack. You need to stop parroting what you hear from the conservative media.
If you want to talk about twisting reality to fit an ideology, conservatives are notorious at doing this. 2+2≠5 as it does in the conservative realm.
Getting a little tired of your ageism and personal attacks on members of this forum.
Slow it up.