I have MBP (Retina, 13-inch, Early 2015 with only one audio jack), and splitter should work fine. It should recognize it as soon as the splitter is in, even without mic connected to the splitter. Splitter alone would let it recognize. So I doubt impedance has to do with anything. Splitter (or iRig that I have) will be recognized even before I plug any mic (or guitar) into it.
Well it was so until last week for me.. I had an OS update lately but I think this is about hardware problem, likely on splitter. Now mac only recognize audio output, but not input, however; I have iRig to connect my electric bass guitar to my mac, and it will let my mac recognize both input/output. My mic is
this one (with 1kΩ±20% and is active mic in case you wonder the spec; it used to work either mic powered on or off: did it break the splitter?!?!).
BTW, the splitter I was using is
this one with some complaints from customer with one star saying "some says it works for iPhone 6 but didn't work for me". So I suppose my splitter is built poorly. Many seems to claim either "all not working" or "mic not working", but never "only mic working". Why is that? Anyone good at audio/electronics?
Until I get sound answer, it seems to me like the solution is to get nicely reliable TRRS splitter cable (or usb audio thingy).
edit: english and some more details