I'm not sure how much emotional weight the word "entitled" is bearing here. Nobody has an inherent right for their business to be profitable.The problem with this is that you're ignoring that Apple isn't currently getting a commission on sales to people who only use Netflix via an App from the App Store. Today, right now, Netflix has an App on the App Store for which they pay nothing to Apple. If Apple was entitled to a commission based on the revenue earned by Netflix thanks to having this App they should be collecting it from Netflix's website. They aren't, which significantly undermines their argument that they should gain a commission from this link.
Apple has structured their agreements so they get a commission for sales through the platform, and they have put restrictions on app behavior to limit apps from instead trying to take sales outside the platform.
The reason _usually_ to try in-app to direct people outside the platform for purchase/subscriptions is to avoid the commissions that the company has contractually agreed to pay to Apple. This isn't always the case (sometimes, you want a more direct customer relationship. Sometimes, you want to make it really hard for people to cancel your service. Sometimes, you want to do predatory or discriminatory pricing.)
Some want to believe Apple just runs an obnoxiously expensive payment service, but no - they use in-app payment support to efficiently collect their commission at the scape of the number of app developers and end-users the platform has.
Splitting payments out doesn't change the fundamental equation at all - Apple charges a commission for the value they think apps create in bringing in new revenue for other companies, large companies totally agree in the value but don't think they should have to pay Apple. Instead, it mucks up the separation these companies have been relying on to avoid the high commission, because now web payments _sometimes_ will result in a contractual obligation to pay a commission to Apple.The fact that these rules aren't going to make any money for Apple or change the fact that Netflix and Spotify won't have any way to sign up for them in the app via a link is why Apple's so called compliance is meaningless.
The whole commission setup is pretty broken imho. The goal was to share in developer success, but avoiding the commission arguably has led to both a decline in app pricing/quality and a surge in free advertising-funded services/games. It will be interesting to see if the opt-in core technology fee affects this in a positive way - hard to do advertising-driven freemium when new users are costing you real money.