Please elaborate - this makes no sense
I'll elaborate now that I tried it. I know it makes NO sense but...
I disconnected one of the wi-fi antennas and not only my BT is back, my BT issues are gone!
My music was skipping in 4 out of 5 songs with a speaker within 20cm from the laptop, now it's solid and the range is better than ever was, I can even place it 5m away as it was supossed to work in the first place.
Wi-fi works the same so far, I'm still seeing bursts of 400Mbps with 2 antennas, didn't notice any slower speed.
I will still consider buying the upgraded airport card + adapter in the future if that allows me to get a solid BT connection, better BT wake-up after sleep, better range, and faster airdrop among my devices. So far I've seen better wi-fi speeds on this thread and watch unlocking.
I mentioned BCM94360CS or BCM943602CS were worse on BT, according to people on this thread, "using airpods to the point I can't walk around the room without the audio stopping". If that is still an issue it's a deal breaker for me.
Thanks for the answers, they've been really helpful.