Quite frankly, your arrogance shows.
And before you ask or think, yes, I do earn more than you every month after tax, putting me in a position that is sad for where I live. No, income is not relevant.
Your inflexibility may work for you now, but don’t expect the same flexibility to be always awarded to you. I may be young in my career, but I’ve managed enough people to understand and know what makes them better at their work rather than being mediocre. I don’t cherish the “old set ways”, and I’ve happily fought against and won against HR policies instituting a full return to the office.
As you’ve very clearly and aptly demonstrated, you yourself are not suitable to be working in a remote environment because you lack trust in people. That is a bit of a sad life, I think.
But yes, your life revolves around you and what makes you money and that no one else matters. Thinking like that from decades ago are currently unfashionable, and they’ll catch up with you.
I often tend to extract the most out of a workforce, and I’ve been successful. You’re happy in your set, transactional ways.