You must be working with respectful people.
Guess what happens when they don't get a hold of you?
It will be your manager that tries to get a hold of you within minutes because the very same individuals reached out to the manager for the most trivial things.
On the other hand, that sounded like victim-shaming.
yes, i do generally work with respectful people. sounds like you should try to find another job, your workplace sounds toxic. trust me, they aren't all like that!