Thanks, wish I didn't have to though. So we now have 11 Pro Maxes, iPhone 12's, 12 Pro Maxes, XS's Max, surely can't be hardware. Bad news is we are in the minority and Apple will probably ignore/pass on this and we'll have to wait until the iOS 15 and or some update that has ram manangement enhancements.
I downloaded some app from the store that tells me the available RAM, so far noticed that when using the camera and actually taking a picture it usually clears about 1.2 gigs of ram or so, but when the issue happens it can't clear more than 800 mbs or so.
I am now always closing every app to see what happens in a day or two.
Some things that I think may be fueling this or maybe just wishful thinking on my side: changing light/dark mode while having many apps in the background, using apps that require a lot of browsing such as facebook (almost always killed when using the camera), pinterest, the official reddit app, changing wallpapers many times through the day while having many background apps open.
Not everyone will get this issue but I am 90% sure it can be reproduced on all the models from the XS upwards, most likely the combination of apps used and usage leads to this, which obviously is still far from ok.
I'll probably reach the point of just using the phone with 2-3 must need apps, system apps and camera, just to see if this still happens.
I'll keep posting when I come across interesting things, as long as I still have the device.
Your analysis is very insightful and touches on many points that I had also been considering.
I do use dark mode almost all of the time, and I do tend to change my wallpaper frequently, often multiple times a day (I get bored of it quickly! ? ).
I don't really see what dark mode chould have to do with anything but as silly as it sounds I had wondered if the changing wallpapers could be related for two reasons:
First, it's one of the few things I can think of that I do on my phone more than most users probably do. Second, changing my wallpaper would sometimes trigger a very minor glitch on my 8 Plus where the phone would sometimes undergo a small crash. Not as bad as this whole camera thing as it never required me to restart my phone and everything was back to normal after just a couple of seconds, but now I'm starting to wonder if there is a connection.