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@tolsen718 has been a member here for 4 years - I'd say that makes him a seasoned MR veteran
Here's my take, early on as a moderator, I was very much of the mindset that rules needed to be enforced period - very black and white. I think many people would say I was probably more on the strict side of things, but as I continued as a moderator my perspective changed. Its more about fostering and enabling open dialog and discussions. Not about ensuring rules are followed to the letter. I would hope that people would view the last few years of my service to be that of a more accommodating and patient moderator. I was more likely to send a private note over a behavior change then a reminder (for minor infractions) and believed in explaining in detail why something was not permitted.
I've said this before, I think an increase in open dialog, and transparency between the staff and members will only make MR a better forum. I understand there needs to be a balance between member privacy (I fully support this) and transparency, but I think administrators and moderators need to do more and be more open on what happens, how it happens and why it happens.
When the site was smaller and the rules were simpler, then a simple canned warning, and a follow up by an admin was fine, but now with over a million members, and the complexity of our rules, I think we need more timely and open follow up by the staff and also the administrators to be a bit more up front and willing to discuss things openly.