It often isn't the benchmark results. The results are fine, the numbers are good bar certain outliers. How some youtubers are *reacting* to those numbers presented is what is so disappointing, as it presents a certain disconnect that is likely pre-planned and scripted ahead of when they received the laptop.
Thing is, it's not bad if the heatsink grows by the next redesign as a result of feedback from reviewers and users. Or if they don't do single-NAND base SSDs anymore and just swallow the, lets be honest, miniscule cost of offering a storage configuration where they can go with two chips or plain faster NAND. No matter how OK the performance is now, asking Apple to do better in any and all aspects is likely not going to result in worse products down the line. So I'm not the Renee Ritchie level of upset here.
But on the topic of benchmarks, note that the M2 MBP performed so good in those that some youtubers actually thought of them as not good enough, and started to stack exports/benchmarks on top of eachother to get a scandal going. Now that was a weird one.