I have chosen to go with Larzy, him being from the same country as I and all.
And it worked like a charm instantly, my iPad 3g is up and running again, with 4.3 beta software....thank you very much Larzy.
In case you are in the exact same situation as I, regarding your iPad being in recovery mode and you need its UDID to register it, Larzy wrote me a way to find it:
Mac:
Users -> User -> Library -> Application Support -> MobileSync -> Backup
Win7:
Users -> User -> AppData -> Roaming-> AppleComputer -> MobileSync-> Backup
The name of the folders in the backup folder corresponds to the UDID (only the first 40 digits, in win7 at least) of the device the backup belongs to. I found my iPads UDID this way.
hope you all get your ipads working again.
all the best
rukiiii