Not my wife and I (we have no issues with our Xs MAX (512GB) Gold and Space Grey).
If I only paid attention to Macrumors threads I'd think my phone completely a failure, useless, full of problems, and a waste of my hard earned money. People love to complain and to be outraged, it attracts attention and 20-40+ page threads. They do it every year with every release. Are the phones perfect? Nope. Can you find flaws with anything we humans make if you look hard enough? Yep. Will my wife and I get 2-3-4+ years of happy use out of these phones? Most likely, as we have with our last phones (8+, 6s+, 6+, 5, 4s).