Reality is perception which is defined by what came before or after you did something. When I had an 11 Pro Max, my GF then iPhone 5 looked like a toy. Now that I have a 13mini 6+ inch phones look like iPad Minis to me.My roommate's 13 pro feels gargantuan now.
Although I love the mini I am fortunate to own an iPad as well. If I couldn't afford a tablet, I would own a big phone like many other people.