Is there a question buried in that large paragraph? 😅Thanks Hardwickj and Pressure.
Just to be clear, the 4K monitors (LG 24" Ultrafines) are working okay daisy-chained from one of my Thunderbolt ports. Normally I have a 5K hanging off the other side of the MacBook; I'd like to swap in my UP3218K when I'm doing photo editing (the 5K is brighter for general use, and faces a window). If the M2 support looks like two 3840x4320 displays and you need "displays have separate spaces" disabled to make it one screen, that's annoying - partly because I just prefer them being different spaces, but also because I've got different scaling compared with the UP3218K. If there's a magic mode that makes the UP3218K work as a single monitor over two connections even if "displays have separate spaces" is enabled, that removes *most* of my annoyance. Although I guess it may mean I can't use my (displayed) graphics tablet *as well*, if I'm using 4 "displays" already. It's also a bit annoying because I use magnetic Thunderbolt connectors, and they won't fit on both of the adjacent ports (which Apple put annoyingly close together), so I'd have to pull them out to use the ports for the Dell.
I really wish they'd just remove the 6016-column restriction. Not least because I don't really need an M2 for any other reason. (I also wish Apple tech support would escalate things they don't know.)
Thanks very much for the status update. Unless there's a miracle (either the StarTech works or Sonoma unexpectedly fixes things) it looks like I'll be doing an M2/M3 update, but at least my UP3218K might actually become useful again. And I'll be poor(er)!
Anyway the Dell UP3218K works as intended offering up 7680x4320 pixels or 4K HiDPI with the M2 Pro or M2 Max. It is seen as a single monitor.