I've noticed that a whole lot of people take forever to respond to texts or don't respond at all. Like, well beyond 24 hours. To me, outside of reasonable extenuating circumstances, this is rude. I've had this happen with both friends and family, and both when I've been the one to initiate the text conversation and when the other person was the one to initiate.
A while back, I needed to confirm plans for a Sunday. I texted the guy on a Monday and by Friday had still not heard back, so I texted his wife, and she responded in a timely manner, and said, "Oh, [husband] has been meaning to get back to you." Well, sheesh, why not at least "react" to my text with a thumbs up or a short "will get back to you before Sunday" etc. to let me know you got the message. What does that take, all of 5-10 seconds? [for the record: we all got together that Sunday and had a great time]. In my opinion, it's rude to keep people hanging like that, but it seems many in society think it's acceptable (or they'll apologize, but then never change their future behavior). These seem to be the same people who also show up to events late or at the last minute.
Even my own brother 75% of the time never responds to me, and then when I see him in person he's like, "Oh, yeah, I think I remember getting that from you" as he digs through his texts looking for it 🤦🏼♂️ One of his close friends from high school has told me several times he's reached out to him and never hears back. I told him don't take it personally, I'm his own brother and he does me the same way! He does the same thing with our parents too, and it drives them crazy. And, yes, they're also frequently late to family events as well.
Anyway, in summary, it seems 24 hours (and honestly it shouldn't take even that long to at least acknowledge a text) is plenty of time to respond. I'm sure I'm going to get responses in this thread from the people who don't with all kinds of justifications, and I understand there are going to be legitimate justifications from time to time, but I'm talking about people who consistently do this.
A while back, I needed to confirm plans for a Sunday. I texted the guy on a Monday and by Friday had still not heard back, so I texted his wife, and she responded in a timely manner, and said, "Oh, [husband] has been meaning to get back to you." Well, sheesh, why not at least "react" to my text with a thumbs up or a short "will get back to you before Sunday" etc. to let me know you got the message. What does that take, all of 5-10 seconds? [for the record: we all got together that Sunday and had a great time]. In my opinion, it's rude to keep people hanging like that, but it seems many in society think it's acceptable (or they'll apologize, but then never change their future behavior). These seem to be the same people who also show up to events late or at the last minute.
Even my own brother 75% of the time never responds to me, and then when I see him in person he's like, "Oh, yeah, I think I remember getting that from you" as he digs through his texts looking for it 🤦🏼♂️ One of his close friends from high school has told me several times he's reached out to him and never hears back. I told him don't take it personally, I'm his own brother and he does me the same way! He does the same thing with our parents too, and it drives them crazy. And, yes, they're also frequently late to family events as well.
Anyway, in summary, it seems 24 hours (and honestly it shouldn't take even that long to at least acknowledge a text) is plenty of time to respond. I'm sure I'm going to get responses in this thread from the people who don't with all kinds of justifications, and I understand there are going to be legitimate justifications from time to time, but I'm talking about people who consistently do this.
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