And that narrow definition brought the discussion of iPadOS to mushrooms and cats? 😄Stretching? No you and I just have a completely different use of the words. You want a very broad and borderline useless definition in my opinion, while I uses a very narrow definition.
You're right, we're using words differently and you're using them incorrectly. "Same" is absolute measure of one particular state and means "identical". The "more" in "more like" is a relative comparison between two different states (in this case before the changes and after the changes) and "like" is a relative measure of similarity. So "same" and "more like" have very different meanings and grammatical uses and you are incorrect in substituting one for the other.
And in this discussion I would say iOS and android are staying neutral.
And I would say that the fundamental character of iOS/iPadOS is being forced to change. What has always made iOS iOS is the walled garden approach, not the choice of color palette and button arrangement. UI/UX has changed over generations of iOS, the walled garden approach has not. The EU has deprived iOS of its unique identity, its added value to consumers like me, and therefore its competitive position in the market.
iOS getting side loading makes it closer to macOS.
It is making iOS more like Android in that they are both mobile OSes where one was differentiated by the walled garden while the other was differentiated by a more open approach. Now they are both forced open, eliminating that key differentiation and source of competition.
Yes, also more like MacOS, which is a bad thing. I know people think they're setting some kind of hypocrisy trap by bringing MacOS into the conversation, but it's as silly as discussing the genetic similarities of mushrooms and cats. As I've said I don't want my mobile devices to be like my desktop devices-- I use them very differently and expect very different things of them.