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is being somewhat puritanical...
However, it is slightly frustrating that the TV/Movie industry has no middle gear and there has been a tendency to try and, shall we say, outdo
Game of Thrones in terms of sex, violence and gore.
American Gods managed to be gorier than the book (which was hardly suitable for the easily offended) and
Star Trek didn't really need the gore and swearing upgrade that it got in
Discovery (what is good for
Battlestar Galactica is not necessarily good for
Trek). I'm not personally put off by it, except when it gets used as a substitute for good ideas. Of course, its partly a reaction to the past prudishness of the big, US networks - and I guess that some shows (like
Discovery) feel that if you're gonna get a 'MA' rating for showing a same-sex kiss, you might as well go for broke...
I think that Iron Fist gets a lot of undeserved hate, especially the first season.
Well, there was the whole 'Martial arts superheroes should be Asian' thing, despite the culture/values/loyalty clash being part of the plot...
I think the real problem, though, might have been that Netflix just made too many "MA Marvel" shows too quickly, with the same basic concept: place a superhero in a semi-real-world setting where the villain is untouchable by the authorities (either by virtue of powers or just through plain old corruption), but beating up or killing the villain will have serious legal and moral consequences for the hero.
Iron Fist came after two very strong shows and one OK one.
Daredevil was one show where I had a problem with the violence: I wasn't offended by it as such, but it was hypocritical and undermined the character:
Daredevil is adamant about not taking lives, but has no problem handing out extreme (and graphically depicted) beatings that - in reality - would result in life-threatening injuries and permanent disability for many of the recipients - a disbelief that is easier to suspend in a camped-up "Whack!!! Splatt!!! Blam!!" comic book fight.
Compare it to another show on Netflix, Sense8.
...which I enjoyed the first season of, but got bored and gave up halfway through the second when the underlying plot degraded to "special people being pursued by a sinister organisation... again". I wasn't offended (social conservatives wouldn't get through the first episode) but regular pansexual orgies are no substitute for an original plot. I think some of the (international) sub-plots and twisted relationships were actually more interesting than the main arc, and could have done with more development at the expense of the "chase"...
For my money,
Orphan Black did a far better job of ""special people being pursued by a sinister organisation... " (still firmly MA though, although almost nothing has as much rainbow sex as
Sense8).