I'm of the same mind My own well used 15" 2011 still runs good as it ever did, even with a known dGPU flaw. I gave up micro analysing my Mac's years ago and got on with using them.My 2011 MBP lasted 10 years, and is actually still working. If I had to have spent this much time analizing every possible wear and tear scenario I wouldn’t have just used the thing like I did, and still do. I’ll be happy if my M1 Air lasts half as long. I can spare 1000 bucks every 5 years or so, I earn more than that in a single month.
My sister has a 2013 MBP, the first one to come out with SSD. It still works. I think Jobs meant it when he said it.
My own M1 MBP from Activity Monitor & Terminal writes no more to the disk than I would expect. The issue of significant writes to the M1 SSD's is a factor for some and no doubt concerning. Personally I believe it's likely due to 3rd party software or all the M1's would be similarly effected.
The solution in my mind is for those suffering this issue is to trace the offending applications, report to the vendor & Apple. I only tend to use my portable Mac's for two years professionally then replace them, so have no concern on battery/SSD life. After that point I re-task them or gift them.
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