Of all the differences between tech nerds and regular people, I think this has to be the most glaring and ridiculous—the overwhelming majority of people do not care about external displays. Casual users? Don't use external displays. Students? Don't use external displays. Hell, I'm a 30-year-old attorney, pretty tech-savvy, and I can count on two hands the number of times I've used a single external display, let alone two!
This is no great mystery. The no-modifier M-series chips are entry-level chips. Apple has chosen to "only" support a single external display with those chips for a) cost reasons, and b) market segmentation. Every manufacturer does this, they just make different choices. Apple's choice has been to make their entry-level chips run circles around every other entry-level chip (and most other mid- and high-level chips) in performance and efficiency. Intel has chosen to support more displays over making efficient chips (much to the chagrin of every person I've spoken to with a work PC laptop).
So get over it! If you need support for more than one external display, get a Pro chip!