If you read the patch notes for the beta update that Xbox users had to redownload yesterday, there were a lot of bug fixes and tweaks done. It is beta and is not going to be perfect.It is releasing in two weeks. That’s not a Beta. Also, it isn’t a beta according to Bethesda. It’s a B.E.T.A, where they’re testing their servers and letting people have early access.
Edit: I’m sure they’re also going to fix all of the console specific problems, like occasionally being 10-12 frames per second.
I have only once had a bug in Fallout that was a mission ending bug, and never one on a Bethesda game that was game crashing. And I think the reason people still give Bethesda a break is because their games are fun and have amazing story telling that you simply can’t find elsewhere.
Unfortunately there are bugs, yes. But in the big scheme of gaming, I’m ok with a few small bugs, if the story and gameplay is worth it. Sorry you haven’t had the same enjoyable experience that has kept so many others returning for Bethesda titles.