Hey Teach4!
Good to see another kick butt woman representing!
So, I don't have the time to read through all the comments but I did skim through the first few pages.
First of all, watch looks good on you!##
Second of all, I would wear it for the trial period and before the 14 days are over (I think the return policy for online orders is actually 30 days, you'd have to call apple and ask!) wear the heck out of it and see how this few days go. If you still feel like it might be too small, keep the 42mm and sell this one.
But. Imho, instead of focusing on what everyone is saying here, too small, too tight, etc... Won't you get online one of those Hoco bands that you can adjust to your size? That way, you get to keep the daintiness of the watch face with a band that isn't too snugged?
If you can afford the Hoco band with the adapter which is somewhere between $20-50 depending on if you care much for brands, I think you should give it a try. You have 14-30 days to make a decision and even better yet. DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY. You don't need our approval. If it were for that, remember none of us would have an Apple Watch today.
Many hate it, many hate the iPhone's or Apple over all.
The world is driven by all kinds of people and sadly you will find those that have a nasty opinion to give.
My experience, whatever makes YOU happy is what works best and so long as you're comfortable and confident, you rock the crap out of this watch and forget everyone's opinion because ultimately yours is the one that matters alone! ###